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Porn – good or bad ?

Today I’m going to write about quite controversial topic ( still in XXIst century, can you believe it ?). The Porn.

Filming, when people have sex is nothing bad at all. It’s a natural thing and as long as we have instincts and curiosity, we’ll want to see how other people do it. We have that kind of technology that allows us to watch it and record also our intercourses. Education and curiosity are great things ! As we watch it, we can see how other people do it, what do they do better or more interestingly and upgrade our sexual life. We can learn about others and about ourselves – some things you know you would definitely do and some others never in your life.

So if it’s so educational and great, why most of people see it in a bad light and it’s ashamed of watching it?

Most of porn movies are focused on men’s needs and how to satisfy their needs as fast as possible. Those videos usually don’t have more than 5-10 min. Those videos don’t promote any kind of passion nor foreplay. The movements are mechanical and women are treated as an objects to satisfy men – he picks up some random chick, after 40 seconds they are already in the flat and she’s doing the blowjob. Whole intercourse is finished 5 min afterwards. You can’t see guys’ face – you mostly see breasts of the girl, her butt and vagina. Also face but not as often as the rest of the body. And the girl is always moaning and screaming like crazy.

What kind of impact does it have?

1) for boys – it shows them that they can treat women like a doll from the sex shop – that she’s like a machine for satisfying them. It makes them insensible for feelings and passion. They are then having difficulties with satisfying women, because they don’t know what women need in bed. They are focused on themselves.

2) for girls – it shows that their needs are not that much important as a men’s ones. And what’s important is how great in satisfying his needs she is.

Other consequences that it has is showing that random sex is something nice and lack of knowledge how to actually make love rather than just put the penis inside vagina.

Many girls also suffer strongly when their partner watches porn. I was one of them. Not that they are jealous over the women on the screen, rather – why do you watch it when we could have an amazing sex ? It’s also hurtful as men tend to choose porn according to the actress – it does feel like cheating at some point. Most of men, on the other hand, say that because of porn they don’t cheat on their girlfriends.

Me, personally, I think that if we were watching a nice and passionate intercourses, our sex life would upgrade to the point, that we would never even imagined. If we were focused on the human’s aspect of it rather than the basic biological one, we would be way happier.

It’s nothing special to have random sex- everybody can do it. Love making is an art.

I am not against porn tho. But I’m pro learning how to have a passionate sex rather than one night stand, that afterwards you just feel … let’s say bad.

Have a nice Friday everybody! Besitos ♥️

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